Jill Marler
Mrs.Whitsell
English Comp I
20 October 2012
Social networks are taking over our society’s communication by turning face-to-face conversations into chatting over a screen. Many use the opportunity to meet new people, while some use it in a more negative way. If a parent were asked their opinion on their child using a social network site, their reply may be of disapproval because of the incredible amount of time their son or daughter spends on it. The supporters of social networks are countless; however, the opponents of these sites are taking a stand against them. Facebook and Twitter are currently two of the most popular social networking websites, and they bring about many positive reasons to support this communication, as well as harmful aspects which cause the opponents to feel the way they do about social networks. Pros and cons of online communication have made a simple reconnecting tool into a very controversial topic.
A positive feature social networks have brought about is the opportunity to develop new relationships through an internet connection. It is always difficult to acquire the nerve to walk up to someone you have never met, and take the chance of either making a friend, or getting rejected in the process. With online communication, it is as simple as sending a message! The conversation would be less awkward in such a case, and it can create a friendship that would only improve in person. These websites also connect people with common interests, which would provide easy conversational topics to chat about.
Another advantage of social networking is the opportunity to reconnect with friends and family. It is very hard for family members to move away, but it becomes easier to stay in touch by photo-sharing and messaging through a social network. When an individual graduates and loses contact with the friends they grew up with, it’s comforting to know that they will be able to communicate with them regardless of the distance. For example, the internet brings an opportunity to see pictures of your cousin’s new baby, when otherwise; it would be weeks before you had a chance to meet her in person. A number of grandparents only have the opportunity to watch their grandchildren grow up in pictures, and that is through the convenience of social networks. Increased communication, whether face-to-face or online, strengthens all relationships.
As well as the aforementioned pros to social networking, these powerful websites provide awareness to many causes and disasters that citizens may not otherwise be informed about. According to ProCon.org, some sites have a specific purpose to provide support groups and encouragement to the people struggling with issues, varying from weight loss to drug addiction. They introduce people to others involved in the same trials, and they hope to improve their conditions.
On a more negative note, many individuals oppose social networks. This side has become aware of the darkness that a social network can bring to someone’s life. When creating a profile on a social network, there is no way to verify that people are who they claim to be; therefore, many dangerous people have the ability to create fake profiles, and become someone you wouldn’t want to develop a new friendship with. Bullies have gone online, predators are lurking everywhere, and MySpace is a nightmare for kids and teens. Online predators do their homework: they check profiles, blogs, and do searches on the names of students they've targeted to see what other information is available about them online. They then usually create a profile pretending to be the same age or close to the age of the student they want to target. They then IM, chat, message, or email the student. This is called "grooming." Once that student is comfortable with his or her new friend, the predators will usually admit they are older than they claimed they were, but they don’t always reveal their actual age. If the student doesn't seem to be upset with that, the predators will reveal who they really are, convince the student to meet them in person, and, well, you know the rest (J, A Hitchcock).
Other than an individual pretending to be someone they aren’t, teens encounter bullying over the internet, as well. So many get verbally abused through social networks, and it is very painful for the victims to go through. Studies have found that anywhere from 9% to 40% of students are victims of cyber bullying; electronic communications allow perpetrators to maintain anonymity and give them the capacity to post messages to a wide audience. In addition, perpetrators may feel reduced responsibility and accountability when online compared with face-to-face situations. These features suggest that youth who may not be vulnerable to school bullying could, in fact, be targeted online through covert methods (Schneider). Students can spread rumors online and set up websites that poke fun at someone. There are chat rooms, blogs, and social networking websites available to all who wish to participate. These can be filled with damaging lies, personal information, and embarrassing secrets about a student. This information can be transmitted to an entire student body and beyond with a simple click of a button. Once the information is out there, whether it is true or not does not matter. Others can simply pick up on it and expand on it to even greater levels of cruelty. When the victim is not in front of them, kids seem to become much braver and are willing to send or forward mean messages (D’Antona).
Additionally, interaction with others is important to an individual. When conversations turn into text on a screen, the socialization once present is now diminishing. Parents do not get to spend time with their children if they are constantly on social networks, and this has a negative impact on that child’s life. Children may not gain the effective communication skills they need to succeed in life, and they may become self-centered as a result of time spent on social networks. It is also important for the individuals to be physically active, which is rarely the case when they spend large amounts of time on a computer.
Social networks have so many positive aspects that can be easily accessed by any individual, but when they are used for negative reasons, they become dangerous to many innocent people. They provide a chance to reconnect with family and old friends, meet new friends, and bring about awareness to a large population about important causes. Undesirable parts of social networking are cyberbullying and online predators, but many users are still naïve to the danger lurking in the web. It is so simple to compliment every convenient aspect a social network brings to a person’s life, but the painful ways it can affect an individual are very significant.
Work Cited
ProCon.org. "Social Networking.” Socialnetworking.ProCon.org. ProCon.org, 11 Oct. 2012. Web. 20 Oct. 2012.
Shari, Kessel Schneider, et al. "Cyberbullying, School Bullying, and Psychological Distress: A Regional Census of High School Students." American Journal of Public Health 102.1 (2012): 171-7. ProQuest AP Science; ProQuest Nursing & Allied Health Source; ProQuest Research Library. Web. 22 Oct. 2012.
D'Antona, Robin, Meline Kevorkian, and Ashley Russom. "Sexting, Texting, Cyberbullying and Keeping Youth Safe Online." Journal of Social Sciences 6.4 (2010): 523-8. ProQuest Research Library. Web. 22 Oct. 2012
J, A. Hitchcock. "Cyberbullies, Online Predators, and what to do about them." MultiMedia & Internet@Schools 14.3 (2007): 13-5. ProQuest Research Library. Web. 22 Oct. 2012.